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It happens everyday, you know, may or may not be straight out that people dislike other people because of their appearance, specially when it comes to "standards".

Like the usual issues when people tell overweight people to kill themselves, or when they say that its their decision to be fat and everything along the lines that people blame the victims for being in a state like that. That's wrong and not true! They didn't decide to be like that, it was same people like you (bullies) why they were like that!

Let's think again, when we were born, for the first time in our life, we open our eyes that has been closed since the day that our parents had an intercourse since they decided that they want to have a child, we didn't see the world to be ugly or beautiful, we don't say that "My mom looks like <insert a noun here that implies unattractiveness>". No, because when we were born, we didn't have the ability to judge or having a list of standards. 

As we grow, our way of thinking is influenced by things we feel, see, hear, etc. From the a daily walk at the park to the movies we watch (yes, they are irrelevant but I'm talking about like everything).

And by these influences, it constructs the standards when it comes to judging anything we've put our thoughts on.

For example, I have my own standards where I rate someone is unattractive or not. I prefer foreign men than one who has the same nationality/race, why? I don't know, maybe because I've watched too much American romantic movies that included handsome actors and such. 

See what I mean? I didn't choose to have standards like that the standards chose me 

I didn't decide that "I should watch these movies because it will influence my standards to find foreign men attractive". Nope.avi

All I'm saying is, if people think you are unattractive because they don't like your appearance nor attitude, it wasn't their choice to be attracted to someone/thing else, they were influenced. Instead! Feel bad about them for having such standards.

and for the people who kept bullying people they dislike, you better calm yo tits before you attack I know I always say this, its hard not to judge at first sight, but at least give time to understand why they were in a state like.

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Pastelliliitu Featured By Owner Nov 6, 2012  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Most of time yes. Even though I'm constantly told that I'm beautiful, I don't feel like I am. I get depressed over little flaws and can't see the big picture :C
kingtytankhamen Featured By Owner Nov 5, 2012
I've been told I'm cute quite a few times, so no.

Karda4124 Featured By Owner Nov 4, 2012  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
I think I'm unattractive. And for some reason, proud of it. I feel like it shows my average social standard, or something like that. I kinda like being the normal, average Joe in the background. Like Bon Bon.
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JustSomeRandomKidLol Featured By Owner Nov 3, 2012  Hobbyist General Artist
Amen! But I watch more of Japanese and Filipino romance movies. :P
chewbaccazm Featured By Owner Nov 3, 2012  Professional Artisan Crafter
its nice to see that there are people still have some sense
morollismine Featured By Owner Nov 3, 2012  Student Digital Artist
woah....this journal seems...serious...somethin happened 0.0?
ps. bullies are idiots, all they do is want attention, either ignore them or....:1
Py-Bun Featured By Owner Nov 3, 2012  Student Digital Artist
no, not really, I post my "random realizations" mostly in tumblr, and this is one of them and I guess some people needs to read this too, if I ponder onto something while doing something else, I make a post about it
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